Thursday, September 24, 2009

Whose the Real Hater

#phrasesihate was a trending topic today on twitter, and I began to think about how much I HATE the way people use the term "HATERS" Now, by definition "hater" just means "one who hates". But, of course over time negros decide that it has a more complex definition which is as follows: "One who hates; One who expresses unfounded or inappropriate hatred or dislike, particularly if motivated by jealousy" . What I find funny about this is when i hear most people refer to the alleged haters, their shit is often FOUNDED and APPROPRIATE and totally uninspired by JEALOUSY.

For example: You've fucked every athlete & entertainer that has stepped in to the city, so we call you a GROUPIE, you call us "haters". >>>but isn't this a fact? I much rather be labeled a groupie than just a WHORE, at least it sounds ambitious.

You boast about a lifestyle that you are not living, by any means and we say your a liar.>>is that hating? or just making an observation based on facts?

You are having a sexual relationship with someone and you post pictures all over the web for everyone to see and the sex partner finds out about it, are the people that told the person a Jealous hater, or are you the hater because you put their business out in the street?

You get where I am going with this, right? To me hating is the anger or the weak. A hater can only hate on what they can't have or with someone they can't compete with. So when people say "your a hater" or "your hating is making me famous" I really want folks to take a second and think if they actually having something going that is worthy of hate. I mean who really would be jealous of someone who really when you think about it has nothing? So what you gave R. Kelly some head, or fucked Ocho Cinco or in the fairtale world which is your head you are jetsetting and living a glamourous life? I mean the only thing that could bring any hate up out of me is someone hurting me or my family, and sometimes it is what you folks that have so many "haters" are doing.
So, instead of stepping your "pussy up" (in the remarkable words of Trina) how about you work on making yourself a more productive citizen, and take a look at the pic above, and you decide who the real hater is. Thank You and Your Welcome

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

10 Things I Want To Know

10. Why is that when I say I am a college graduate & working in my desired field that people are shocked? Do I just look like my job is being a baby mama? I gotta step my look up.

9. At what point do women start claiming men as their "man" when they have never had a discussion about being in a relationship?

8. Why is it that all the people who have alledgedly moved to the west coast or NYC are always in Detroit...full time? You have not moved away and we know it.

7. Is stunting so important that you must buy fake merchandise to impress people who can't afford the stuff anyway?

6. Why do men withhold the fact that they have children? I don't know about most broads but Family is number one on my list of priorities when it comes to selecting a mate, if you fail to mention or discuss the importance early...I don't want cha. Read "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man".

5. Is it me or has ever since Danger Smashed The Homie has every man been on a conquest to smash one of your homies? Imma about to start smashing homies too forget it.

4. If I didn't want to holla ten years ago (when I was young and impressionable) why would I want to holla when I am grown and well seasoned? think about it loser.

3. Why do people try and make out what they are doing as being so grandeur and it really is quit minimal? For example folks say: I own a Marketing and Events Planning company and we do events all over the country with the hottest celebs. This translates to: I do parties in a small city and sometimes my friend who is boning this dude that plays for the Lions comes through. I also go party outta town and act like its my event. DOUCHE BAG.

2. Is twitter real life? How is it that my 140 characters ruins lives and crushing self esteem?

1. How much money does it cost to get people out of your lives for good? I have some folks I don't wanna be bothered with anymore.